The Pineapple Express: A Millennial’s Guide to Love, Evolution, Relationships & Sex Positivity
The Pineapple Express: A Millennial’s Guide to Love, Evolution, Relationships & Sex Positivity
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Yes, this used to be a swinger podcast… but things evolve. Just like we do.
Meet Kiley—queer menace, local witchy woman, non monogamous misfit-turned-monogamous, ADHD daydreamer, astrology nerd, ex-sex worker, and your favorite TikTok swinger-turned-relationship coach.
She’s here to stir the cauldron.
This space isn’t just about swinging anymore (though we’ll always have love for a well-planned orgy). It’s about modern relationships, real transformation, nervous system repair, intimacy after heartbreak, and letting your pleasure evolve with you.
Let’s talk about the messy, magical middle.
Let’s talk about sex, sexuality, and soul-level connection.
Let’s talk about what happens when the swinger girl becomes the soft, sacred version of herself—and still loves to fuck.
This is not your average relationship space.
This is Kiley’s world. You’re invited.
The Pineapple Express is a podcast for people navigating the messy, magical, and ever-evolving world of modern relationships.
Every week, we explore what it means to grow in love—whether you're monogamous, non-monogamous, polyamorous, curious, or completely redefining what partnership looks like for you.
This isn’t just another relationship podcast. It’s a real-time audio journal, a resource hub, and a safe space for conversations that go beyond the surface—rooted in sex positivity, emotional wellness, and authentic self-discovery.
🎙️ We dive into topics like:
- Monogamy & Non-Monogamy
- Ethical Slutdom, Polyamory & Conscious Relationships
- Relationship Transitions & Emotional Growth
- Queerness, Bisexuality & Identity Exploration
- ADHD & Neurodivergence in Love
- Communication, Boundaries & Intimacy
Whether you’re opening your relationship, closing it, rethinking how you love, or trying to love yourself better—The Pineapple Express is here to ride with you.
🛎️ New episodes drop weekly. Subscribe now and grow with us.
Why Listen?
Because you're tired of relationship advice that doesn’t reflect your reality. Whether you’re in a traditional relationship, ethically non-monogamous, figuring out your sexuality, or somewhere in between—this podcast is for you.
Hosted by Kiley, a certified sex and intimacy coach with lived experience in swinging, non-monogamy, and evolving into monogamous love, this show offers real, vulnerable, and often funny conversations about what it means to grow in partnership.
You’ll hear personal stories, expert interviews, and unfiltered reflections on love, identity, neurodivergence, boundaries, and becoming your most authentic self.
If you’ve ever asked, “Is it normal to change in love?”—this podcast says YES. And we talk about how.
Subscribe now and ride The Pineapple Express, where we talk about love, sex, and everything in between—without judgment, just curiosity and connection.
The Pineapple Express: A Millennial’s Guide to Love, Evolution, Relationships & Sex Positivity
96: Holding Space for Heartache: Grief in the Swingers Lifestyle
In this heartfelt episode of The Pineapple Express, I explore grief in the swinger lifestyle — the losses that aren’t always acknowledged, from friendships and play partners to deep emotional bonds. This episode holds space for heartache, reflection, and healing within non-monogamous communities.
Stay with us until the end, where I share my personal essay, “Silver Springs, Tulip Fields, and Upside Down Pineapples”, featured on The Queer Love Project Substack. It’s a deeply intimate story of love, loss, and the transformative power of connection. https://queerloveproject.substack.com
This episode is dedicated to my dear friend Brad Weiner, who left us too soon, until we meet again teddy bear.
What You’ll Get from This Episode:
🔸 Understanding Grief in Non-Monogamy:
Learn how grief shows up in unique ways in the swinger lifestyle — from the loss of play partners to the emotional impact of community breakups.
🔸 Personal Stories of Grief in the Lifestyle:
Hear real stories about losing close connections, being ghosted, and navigating the unexpected emotional challenges of swinging.
🔸 A Breakdown of the Stages of Grief:
We’ll walk through how Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, and Acceptance show up in non-monogamous relationships and what they teach us about healing.
🔸 An Exclusive Essay Reading:
Listen until the end for a reading of “Silver Springs, Tulip Fields, and Upside Down Pineapples”, my deeply personal essay featured on The Queer Love Project Substack. It's a moving story of love, loss, and finding beauty in unexpected places.
Why Listen?
❤️ If you’ve ever felt the pain of losing a connection in the lifestyle, this episode is for you.
🤝 It’s a reminder that grief is valid, even in non-traditional relationships.
🧡 You'll gain tools to navigate emotional challenges and embrace healing.
📖 Plus, you’ll hear a heartfelt essay that celebrates love, loss, and growth.
This episode will leave you feeling seen, understood, and supported — because grief deserves a
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