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109: Hard Truths: Women’s Pleasure, Shame, and the Silent Impact of ED With Dr. Elliot Justin

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In this powerful episode of The Pineapple Express, sex and relationship coach Kiley George sits down with Dr. Elliot Justin, founder of FirmTech and a leading voice in sexual wellness innovation, to explore the often-overlooked emotional and physical impacts of erectile dysfunction (ED) on women.

We talk about how ED affects women's sexual confidence, why so many partners feel shame, guilt, or self-blame, and how sex tech tools like FirmTech’s Ring are helping couples reconnect with pleasure, intimacy, and honest communication.

This episode blends scientific insights, real talk about libido, and relationship tips for navigating intimacy when things aren’t going “as planned.” If you’ve ever wondered how to support a partner with ED—or how to reclaim your own arousal in the process—this one’s for you.

  • Why ED isn’t just “a man’s issue”
  • How shame and silence affect female arousal
  • Women’s hidden grief around unspoken rejection
  • Reframing ED with science, compassion, and tools
  • How to have the conversation with your partner
  • The role of FirmTech's Ring in enhancing erection strength and pleasure for both partners

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