The Pineapple Express: A Millennial’s Guide to Love, Sex Positivity, Non-Monogamy, Polyamory & Swinging
The Pineapple Express
Once a swinger podcast… now a real-time journey through modern love.
Hosted by Kiley — queer, non-monogamous, neurodivergent, ex-sex worker turned sex and relationship coach — The Pineapple Express explores the messy, magical, ever-evolving world of love, sex, intimacy, and emotional growth.
This podcast is for anyone navigating:
- Non-monogamy, polyamory, or swinging
- Monogamy after openness (or vice versa)
- Relationship transitions, breakups, and rediscovering self-worth
- ADHD, neurodivergence, and nervous system repair in love
- Sexual empowerment and authentic connection
Each episode blends real-time storytelling, expert interviews, and unfiltered reflections on:
- Ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and swinging
- Emotional intelligence and intimacy and of course SEX
- Boundaries, communication, and healing attachment wounds
- Queerness, identity exploration, and sex-positivity
- Neurodivergent love, pleasure, and partnership
You’ll laugh, cry, and maybe even journal after. Kiley’s here to stir the cauldron — and remind you that pleasure, connection, and love are allowed to evolve.
This isn’t your average relationship podcast.
It’s personal. It’s sacred. It’s a little unhinged.
And it’s exactly what you’ve been craving.
Why Listen?
Because you're not looking for perfect love — you’re looking for real love.
Because you’re healing, growing, and rewriting the rules — and want company along the way.
Subscribe now and ride The Pineapple Express, where we talk about sex, love, and everything in between — with zero judgment, just curiosity, courage, and connection.
The Pineapple Express: A Millennial’s Guide to Love, Sex Positivity, Non-Monogamy, Polyamory & Swinging
110: 'Tolyamory' and The Dangers Of Practicing Non Monogamy To Keep Your Partner
Let’s talk about the thing no one wants to admit: sometimes we say yes to non-monogamy not because we want to—but because we’re afraid to lose someone we love. In this episode, we dive deep into the term “tolyamory” (coined by Dan Savage), the danger of choosing open relationships out of fear instead of desire, and how to tell if you’re actually aligned with non-monogamy… or just tolerating it.
We’ll unpack:
- The red flags of “tolyamory”
- Why consent isn’t just a checkbox—it’s a felt sense
- How to check in with your nervous system before saying yes
- What to do if your partner wants non-monogamy and you don’t
- How to reclaim your voice, your boundaries, and your truth—even when it’s hard
Whether you’re the one asking or being asked to open up, this episode is for you. Let’s stop calling it love when it’s really fear. 💔➡️💖
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